I Have Friends Everywhere

One of the great joys of traveling abroad is meeting people of all ages, nationalities and walks of life, whether it's Cornelius, the retired barrister from Rotterdam, Olga, the graduate student turned professional comedienne from Moscow, Marcello, the elementary school teacher moonlighting as a tour guide in Zurich, Laszlo, the genealogist from Budapest, or Dina, the college student turned artist from Genoa.

Our overseas trips to Korea, Italy, England, France, the Netherlands, Spain, Germany, Switzerland and Austria have all been culturally enriching thanks to the numerous human connections we established over the years. This year, we were often asked:"Are you all okay over there?" or "Will you be all right?" in the face of the evolving fascist incursion perpetrated on the American people by the Trump regime.

Unlike many Americans, Europeans and Asians are not fooled by the ham-fisted narratives that Trump's band of pirates and cutthroats are pandering in the vast and furiously-paced construction of the new totalitarian regime. Of course, non-Americans aren't suckling at the teat of Fox News, either. They are clear-eyed and clear-headed enough to recognize an alarmingly authoritarian regime when they see one.

With that preface, I'd like to introduce you to a few of the many wonderfully articulate people we befriended in our time in Germany, Austria and Italy this past summer. Naturally, all of them had something to say about the sad state of political affairs in America today, expressing sympathy for those citizens of the U.S. grappling with the impending demise of democracy.

Meet Eugene (above), the night proprietor at the Hotel Deutsches Theatre in the heart of Munich where we stayed in 2011. Eugene, 92. is a native of Budapest who survived both the Nazis and their Soviet successors in Hungary. Discussing the trend toward authoritarianism in the U.S., he noted: "The oppressors always crumble from within." Then, he added with the wink and a smile: "Isn't his real name Drumpf?"

Meet Slim (above, front), our server at The Snitzelwirt Restaurant on the boulevard between Karlsplatz and Marienplatz. Slim, 43, a native of Tunis, is not happy with the state affairs in the U.S. "My sister and her family live in Washington, D.C. I would love to pick up my mother in Tunisia and visit the U.S. For now we will continue to meet in Tunis until that crazy man is long gone and forgotten."

Meet Gaia, the afternoon proprietor at the Hotel Bolzano B&B. Gaia, 24, is a graduate student at the Free University of Bozen-Bolzano focusing on environmental sustainability. A rock climber, Gaia disapproves of the recent trend toward authoritarianism in the U.S. Her advice: "You're a former mountaineer. You should move to the mountains of Bolzano. Get out while you still can, before it's too late," she noted with a smile.

Everyone we met on our recent journey expressed concern for our welfare under such an oppressive regime. Their messages and themes were clear and their encouragement reminded me of dialogue from the recent Andor series written by Tony Gilroy: "There will be times when the struggle seems impossible. I know this already. Alone, unsure, dwarfed by the scale of the enemy. Remember this: freedom is a pure idea. It occurs spontaneously and without instruction."

"Random acts of insurrection are occurring constantly. There are whole armies that have no idea that they’ve already enlisted in the cause. Remember that the frontier of the resistance is everywhere. Even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward. And remember this: the need for control is so desperate because it is so unnatural. Tyranny requires constant effort. It breaks, it leaks. Authority is brittle."

"Oppression is the mask of fear. The day will come when these moments of defiance will have flooded the banks of the authority, and then there will be one too many. One single thing will break. Remember this: We fight to win. That means we lose. And lose and lose and lose, until we’re ready. All you know now is how much you hate (this situation). You bank that. You hide that. You keep it alive until you know what to do with it.”

Return To Isolona

A highlight of this trip was having the opportunity to connect with our Italian cousins, the Sanguinetis, in Isolona. The remote village resides in the Fontanabuona Valley near Genoa. Having already spent a fortnight in Germany, Austria and Italy, we remained uncertain we could meet. But two days before departure, we finally connected, thanks to the wonders of social media and Google translate, and a meeting was scheduled.

The Fontanabuona Valley is an inland drainage northeast of Genoa. The area, well known for slate quarries that have been worked since medieval times, provided livelihoods for many residents of Commune of Orero. In nearby Cicagna, the town has become something of a home improvement hub, providing roofing tiles, floor and wall tile, countertops, tablets and pool table tops for consumers as far away as Rome.

In addition to assessing the motherlode of slate, the Fontanabuena Valley is famous for its hazelnuts, much like the Willamette Valley in Oregon. The valley, characterized by its lush greenery, streams and a variety of natural landscapes, features Vermentino and Dolcetto vineyards, olive groves and expensive chestnut and oak woods. Historically, Fontanabuena  was an ancient fief of the Fieschi family.

Although our visits have been brief when we travel to Italy, they have been most enjoyable. It's been great connecting with family; we could feel the genuine love despite the language barriers in communicating. On our first trip to Isolona, the Sanguinetis gifted us numerous photos of my family, including the picture below of, from left, my uncle, grandfather, grandmother and mother that I had never seen before.

Port Of The Dolphin

In the late 18th century, Portofino might have been the ideal "pirate cove" from The Count of Monte Cristo, where buccaneer Luigi Vampa and his crew would have divided their plunder after raiding a merchant ship. Today, Portofino is a primary Ligurian tourist attraction often frequented by the world's rich and famous. Clustered around a small harbor, the village features colorfully painted buildings that line the shore.

In 2013, as a scrum of paparazzi and rubber-necking tourists squeezed past our table at The Ristorante Delfino (top photo), I asked our server: "What's all that about?" "Johnny Depp is in town," he replied with a furled eyebrow. According to locals, it's quite common to spot celebrities like Madonna, Jennifer Lopez, Steven Spielberg and scores of others on the streets of Portofino when they venture from their gated villas.

The multi-million dollar yachts in the small harbor intermingle with the fishing sloops and tour boats, creating a colorful foreground against the backdrop of Portofino. The town itself is quite small, with less than 400 full time residents. Pliny the Elder named the village after all the dolphins that thrive along the Ligurian coastline on the Italian Riviera between Genoa and Portovenere on the region's border with Tuscany.

Motherland Redux

Retiring from my career position at Eugene Water & Electric Board in late 2008, my immediate inclination was to travel to Europe -- Italy, in particular. My mother and grandmother had maintained a 50-year correspondence with their cousins, the Sanguinetis, and I was intrigued by the notion of attempting to locate the family in their somewhat remote location in a small village called Isolona in the Commune of Orero.

My sojourn to the Motherland, however, would need to wait. When my just-graduated daughter chose to teach English in South Korea for a year, and I procured a fellowship to teach public relations at Sojang University in Seoul, it was a done deal. After some initial culture shock, I adapted nicely and enjoyed every minute. My daughter visited from Busan, and I connected with several former UO students living in Seoul.

Though retired from EWEB, I would continue to teach public relations full time as a non-tenure track instructor at the University of Oregon School of Journalism and communication during the school year. The best part? Summers off. By spring, I had airline tickets and hotel reservations booked for Italy in summer, 2010. But still a rookie at international travel, I would have much to learn, and some of it the hard way.

My first mistake was flying into Milan late in the afternoon. As I waited outside the terminal at the bus stop, a cab driver took pity and told me: "No bus to Genoa." He then pointed me to a bus bound for the main train station in Milan. "You take train to Genoa." Negotiating with the ticket office, I secured a ticket to Genoa and barely made the train in time for the two-hour trip in the dark, arriving in Genoa at midnight.

After that experience, a bus trip to Isolona in the Commune of Orero would have been nigh impossible. My next trip to Italy, in 2013, would be slightly more productive. Thanks to our hotel proprietor, we hired a cab driver who spoke both English and Italian, and was proficient in Genovese, the local dialect. Unfortunately, as luck would have it, Liguria has more than one Orero, and we chose the wrong one.

Then, in 2014, my brother and his family visited Italy and they not only found Isolona, but also learned the son-in-law of Anna Sanguineti was mayor of the small village. He pointed out the Sanguineti home, but unfortunately, no one was home that day. But armed with new information, we ventured to Genoa once again in 2015. This time, with help from our cab driver, Andrea Giovanelli, we connected with the Sanguinetis.

We returned to Italy once again in 2018, and in addition to enjoying the sights, sounds and cuisine of Genoa, we took the boat excursion to Portovenere and made yet another pilgrimage to Isolona to see the Sanguinetis. Then, on 2020, we were all sidelined by the global pandemic, abruptly ending our annual excursions to destinations like Genoa, Turin, Barcelona, Munich, Zurich and Geneva. Now, in 2025, we were finally back.